Obviously, this is not a scientific term; formally, the studies measured how attractive the opposite sex is to “responsive” people.

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In reality, I think us ladies really do hate the chasing aspect of it, but we love finally catching up — even if we’re totally out of breath and exhausted.

Men, on the other hand, love being chased — it gives them what I assume to be a similar confidence boost to the one women get when the chase is over.

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Responsiveness (openness, empathy, kindness) are qualities that men innately look for in women.

The study even shows that men find responsive, (therefore more feminine) women more sexually desirable.We’ve all heard the theory that men love the “mean girls” — there’s a bestselling book called “Why Men Love Bitches” for Pete’s sake — but thankfully this study shows us that’s not true after all!While the study explicitly asked women if they saw responsive men as less masculine and the common answer was no, it’s my personal opinion and experience that this isn’t quite accurate.Yes, you read that right: the less responsive guys were (i.e.the bigger of an asshat they were), the more attractive women found them.Trust me, it’s a lot easier than beating around the bush.