There is no house maintenance to carry out and no children to take to school! When they date a single woman, do the deed with her, men are usually pressured into taking the relationship into a whole new level that is coupled with commitment. The conversation will flow very nicely and the woman will match your compliments and be very outgoing towards you, this is because of the time factor. Younger single men know about how some older women like to fashion themselves as “cougars”. The younger man is unlikely to be with you when you’re turning 65.

Getting involved and dating married women would mean that you don’t have to remember important dates and actually make it a point to see each other everyday. Your married woman will only have one night out with the girls perhaps once every couple of weeks or so. Instead, you’re seen as an “easy mark.” A convenient, willing, no-strings-attached sex toy.

Have stable relationships ever been as fragile as they are now?

There are no strings attached to it, either, so it’s just fantastic sex with seemingly no consequences. Men would love to have a lover who asks almost nothing of them. This especially applies to married women who date single guys. He’s not going to fall in love with you and marry you.

The married woman won’t expect presents or moan if he forgets to phone her. What this means for single men is the kind of sexual trip they crave without the guilt trip in the end. Practicality and convenience play a factor in affairs for the single man. You don’t have to worry about romantic dinners, tickets to the movies, or even “waiting” for sex. Supposing you’re a single guy out for a night with your friends perhaps night-clubbing, you see an attractive woman out with her friends and you strike up a conversation. He has no intention at all of staying with you for very long.

But did she give up any right to privacy when she allegedly embarked on an affair with the French president, and what rights does a mistress have anyway? Being a mistress can be hard, so why would a woman do it?

For all the moralising in the media about infidelity when stories such as Gayet-gate emerge, the truth is that adultery is often in tune with the "hook up" culture to which modern women are accustomed.

So the married woman/single man coupling is the more rare circumstance. Why do some single men have affairs with married women? Unlike most women, single men often love having access to someone who is passionate, sexual and really wants nothing more from them. The goal of dating for married people is far different from dating among the singles. This is the most apparent reason why they willingly throw themselves out there.

On a purely physical level, most men are going to enjoy their affairs with married women. You’re unlocking a woman full of sexual desire who is not getting her needs met at home, so of course the one night (or many nights) of sex is going to be unbelievably great. You don’t need to meet the parents and you won’t miss a single bowling night out with your buddies. But for married people who are already committed, they are just out to seek solutions to their unmet emotional and/or sexual needs.If the married woman has a mind to commit adultery, she will have only a short period of time to get to know you, therefore she will be as accommodating as she can be. It’s so unlikely that anything resembling a mutually-satisfying and loving long-term romantic partnership that you shouldn’t even play the fantasy out in your head.But he will play you and he knows just how to say the right thing to get you to believe that maybe there could be a future.I don't want to be a wife.” “These relationships generally fizzle out when I get bored of the guy," added a third friend."And that usually happens when they start bring their family in to it.This is sort of Part II concerning single people having affairs with married people and why.