Dear Prudence, my boyfriend is very disgusted by period blood, which is understandable.Period blood is gross and because of that we don’t have sex when I’m on my period. Then move on with your life because you’re an adult human being who touched a little blood for a second.I’m perfectly happy with this and I feel that all my needs are fulfilled. It’s not like it’s old and it’s been sitting around. Again, it’s not like he has some sort of traumatizing blood phobia. Frankly, I would dump, I would take joy in choreographing a dumping that would result in me pirouetting away over a bunch of synchronized swimmers or something like that. West: But I did have a surprise period one time during sex just like this gal and the guy, we had been dating for a couple months, and he never called me again.

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Because of this, about every two to three months I find out I’m on my period in the middle of sex with my boyfriend who proceeds to freak out, immediately end our intimacy, and usually never picks it back up again, then try to distract himself from what just happened for the rest of the night and doesn’t want to talk about it. It doesn’t have to be your favorite thing in the world. Ortberg: But he says he’s not mad at you and doesn’t blame you. Ortberg: I bet he doesn’t come to a complete stop at stop signs because they’re red and they remind him of menstruation and the thought of that is so terrifying he has to flee.

Meanwhile, I’m left feeling hurt and neglected, abandoned in the middle of sex, and since I’m extra-hormonal, I end up crying. You don’t have to put some in your morning smoothie every day. If he is responding with this level of paralysis and panic and terror and “Get your cooties away from me” every couple of months, there are guys out there who are not like that. The fact that that’s where he’s at emotionally, is like yeah, he fucking shouldn’t. Like, “Guy, she’s not bleeding on you on purpose.” It’s not like she secretly knows when her period’s about to start and then it’s like, “Yeah, I’m going to bleed all over his dick and not tell him.” It’s also just period blood. All right, we’ve got stop just hating on this one guy because I could dedicate the rest of my life to doing that, but I really shouldn’t. Dear Prudence, my fiancé and I have been together for seven years now and engaged for the past five.

Our wedding that was supposed to be in October has been canceled and he didn’t seem to even care and overall he seems to have an attitude towards me. He will continue to prioritize everyone else in his life before you. If you want you can stick with this guy for as long as he’s willing to jerk you around.

It’s like he’s got tunnel vision because it’s his friends and forget any plans or promises made with me. I’m sure he would be willing to pretend to want to set a wedding date a couple more times and then invite a bunch of other people to move in with him instead, but getting married to him is not an option.

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Things progressed physically and after a romantic dinner at his house we moved to his bed.where they reignite the Crane Boys’ Mysteries, but actually something came down the pike this morning in the live chat that was so—I think I blacked out for a minute—it was so intense that I have to talk about it right now on the show with you. Ortberg: The question was from this woman who, usually when somebody sends me a letter, even if I think it’s pretty clear that they’re in the wrong, there is at least some attempt on their part to mitigate or justify what action they have taken where you kind of have to read between the lines.I have never before gotten a letter that so clearly and perfectly indicted the letter writer themselves as this one did. The daughter had a best friend named Katie, who she had known since they were four. Katie was going to be one of her bridesmaids and Katie walks with a limp.This keeps happening and the latest postponement came at a time when I needed to renew my lease but wasn’t sure if I was moving in with him or not.I don’t have an issue with him helping his friends.Ortberg: It’s just really good for everyone to know I have so much strength of character and ability to focus and concentrate that sometimes when I’m doing my own show I forget my own name.