How can a father be engaged in fathering his children if he is locked in his office at home spending countless hours viewing porno sites on the internet?More than just viewing porn, these men are also masturbating. Why do otherwise good fathers and husbands engage in this self-isolating sexual behavior when they have a willing sexual partner available?

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In addition to body image issues, women struggle with what is and is not acceptable about being sexual when you are female.

To this day there remains the double standard that for men it is permissible to be sexual but for women sexuality represents being immoral and sinful.

Why do men engage in viewing pornography both in secrete and in isolation? How can we help men and women understand one another so as to better avoid the bitterness and anger that easily comes between them on this issue? We have had several females state their intention to end their relationship with their male partner and at least one woman has asked if she should break her engagement and impending marriage over the pornography controversy.

We need to ask if this angry approach is good for either men or women over the topic of viewing internet pornography.

Some of these female writers report that they even view some internet porn along with their partner and feel especially angry that their partner will sneak away to view porn websites in isolation.

The comments express outrage, hurt, puzzlement, and confusion about what goes on with their men.

For women, feelings of shame often have to do with body image issues.

Women compare themselves to other women and fear that they are not thin enough, shapely enough, or large breasted enough to fit the stereotypical view of what is defined as a beautiful woman.

The experience of shame is humiliating and includes feeling a sense of disgust and mortification about the self.

Both men and women experience feelings of shame around sexual issues but for different reasons.

None of this is mean to imply that the men who watch pornography have these problems.