You’ll hear that expressed in terms like “You’re so articulate” or “Can you believe that this ‘little lady’ can do (insert normal business function here).” Ignorance and confusion are hardly conducive to a good relationship.

The good news is that there are a growing number of white men who know, trust and rely on their black women colleagues.

These people weren’t just not noticing each other, they weren’t even trying.

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[Please Read: This has obviously become an incendiary post, to the point of going viral.

If you are a #MGTOW and wish to take me to task for having had a vibrant, highly-satisfying dating life that led to a happy, fulfilling relationship with a wonderful woman, I’ve already responded to similar comments more than enough times below.

Please read this other post before commenting to gain clarity on my gender-neutral position on human behavior.] —– A while back I was on a coaching call with a woman who happens to be smart, successful and beautiful. Granted, knowing how “approach anxiety” has a death grip on most mortal men, it’s not even like I was expecting to witness guys stopping bikini-clad hotties and getting their numbers.

We were actively discussing creative ways she might encourage the kind of man she deserves to introduce himself, start a conversation and sweep her off of her feet. The odds of seeing a jaguar in the wild in Florida are probably greater than that.

Her paper documents how AAWE leadership traits are very different from white women’s.

They’re actually similar to white male leadership traits.

This creates a conflict with many white men, especially those from my generation (age 47) or older.

It comes from a mix of racial AND gender stereotyping.

Out of the blue, she posed one of the most poignant questions I’d been asked in quite some time: My knee-jerk response, had I not stopped to ponder the issue, may have been something to the effect of, “Well, of course. All places where there’s no shortage of attractive women wandering the sidewalks in sundresses or catching rays on the beach in bikinis. But these guys were apparently oblivious that there were sexy women within the scope of their radar.

Men have been making it a point to stop and admire women they happen to see when they’re out and about since the dawn of recorded time. At each stop I made it a point to stop and observe what happened whenever men and women were in close proximity to each other. They weren’t even bothering to look at them…at all.

Likewise, every #MGTOW battle cry and every stat you guys use to drive your confirmation bias has already been brought up and respectfully responded to (most of which several times).