And just like a high stakes basketball game, the Duggars’ style of courting involves plenty of rules, plus refereeing done under the watchful eyes of dad Jim Bob and mom Michelle.caught up with Jim Bob and Michelle to learn more about their views on courting.Rule #5: Know When to Say “Game Over” Just as you should not play dating games, you will want to avoid getting played.

An example of a red flag would be if you found yourself on a date with someone who could not stop talking about their ex.

They may be a fantastic person, and eventually make a great partner, but right now they’re not ready.

By paying attention and screening out potential partners whose actions don’t match their words, you cut down on wasted dating time and make it that much easier to attract potential partners worth your time and energy.

Rule #4: Don’t Play Games Successful singles know what goes around comes around.

They also know the importance of being honest and well-intentioned with the people they date.

As a successful single, you owe it to yourself and the individuals you date not to play games. Do what you say you’re going to do, and be honest when the other person asks if you’d like to go out again.To get the most out of your dating life, it’s important to understand that actions speak louder than words.When someone’s actions are contrary to their words, this is not only a red flag, it’s gut-check time.If you don’t want to see them again, say so in a kind and considerate way.By being honest and letting them down easy, you avoid playing games. If you don’t get it, don’t play games by taking that out on the next person you date.Maybe they’re attentive and chivalrous to you, but treat the waiter, bartender, and/or valet poorly.