Furthermore, I am aware of the underworld of sex tourism in Colombia and I know that there are many strip clubs and brothels in Medellin; however, strippers and prostitutes are not the types of girls that I date, nor is it something I would like to promote, therefore, I will not be referring to that in this post. My situation is a little different than most foreigners here in Colombia.I am actually Colombian, my family is Colombian, and more importantly (aside from my height, 6’2″) I look Colombian.

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For an emasculated man from the United States, this is a nightmare.

Penetrating that group of friends, playing “the game” in order to get to your “target girl” is hard work, and sometimes does not work if you don’t speak Spanish well enough for her to understand.

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“Aunt Bet always said the pub was a finishing school. There were a few locals but it wasn’t the sort of pub where local could sit and drink properly, most people were passing through.

I have lived my entire life, barring the past 5 years of course, in Southern California.

At first glance, Medellin women do not perceive me as a foreigner due to the way I look.

Many guys who come to Colombia cannot pick up girls in their own native language let alone in Spanish and some even have the audacity to say that the women here are just “gold diggers” or “too difficult” and that is not accurate at all.

Here in Medellin, you do NOT need to play that game.

A certain amount of negligence after making an impression piques a woman’s interest, it is the whole psychological framework of the type of women who wants a strong man (check out this great article on Psychology Today by Gina Barreca, Ph.