Girls, don't ever fool yourself by thinking you have to fit a certain mold to be loved and appreciated.There is a guy out there who is going to celebrate you for exactly who you are, someone who will love you like I love my Sarah.

Contrary to popular belief…you can be an independent, bad-ass woman and a caring, sensitive lover at the same time.

A black woman doesn’t need to be classified as “quirky” in order to be smart but it’s definitely a tie-in that we are tired of hearing.

His bias is tricky to spot - he probably doesn't even realise it exists - the outdated views he holds about women, deep down. That by saying he finds his wife's body shape 'sexy' that somehow solves centuries of sexism. As a teenager, I was often teased by my friends for my attraction to girls on the thicker side, ones who were shorter and curvier, girls that the average (basic) bro might refer to as "chubby" or even "fat." Then, as I became a man and started to educate myself on issues such as feminism and how the media marginalizes women by portraying a very narrow and very specific standard of beauty (thin, tall, lean) I realized how many men have bought into that lie.

Mansplaining on Instagram does not make you a male feminist: 'A real woman is not a porn star or a bikini mannequin or a movie character. For me, there is nothing sexier than this woman right here: thick thighs, big booty, cute little side roll, etc.

Like I said before, we are proud of our lineage but we are also very smart, so don’t be surprised if the quirky black girl you date can fill many roles…we like to call that being “worldly”.

very once in a while, something on the internet brightens your day.Like he's a hero to all those women who don't meet every single western beauty standard.His starting point is the assumption that we shouldn't find curvy women attractive. erhaps the most galling thing, is that Sarah - who is stunning - is a body positive fashion blogger.Women don't exist purely for the pleasure of men (I know, shocking isn't it? To have their bodies appraised by men and talked about on the internet by men - even if that man is married to them.Robbie is what you might call a 'nice guy misogynist'. He's nice to his female colleagues, he cherishes his wife and loves his mother and sister. I love my rich, Black culture and wouldn’t trade it for the world.