There are many women who go to China and won’t even try — women who have already made up their minds perhaps even before they’ve set foot in the Middle Kingdom. I don’t even mind that her account of that date is largely negative and unflattering towards Chinese men.

Wei Jianguo, from Beijing, left his home in 2008 after having a quarrel with wife.

It always amazes me when people judge an entire population of people based on just one date alone.

The more of us that publish thoughtful pieces that transcend the usual stereotypes and assumptions, the better for those readers searching for information on this topic. I’ve often referred to this post as “Everything you’ve ever wanted to know about dating Chinese men in China, but were afraid to ask.” It was a collaboration with three lovely — Melanie, Jessica and Susan — and worth a read for anyone new to China and the dating scene. Before you start dating Chinese men, you have to find them first.

This post — a perennial favorite among readers — offers some great suggestions. Another classic Ask the Yangxifu post about what I refer to as the “dating limbo” — a time when even though you’re not quite sure if you’re dating him or not, he might actually be into you. I maintain a page that, chances are, might answer that burning question on your mind right now. These true stories of other Chinese men and Western women in love cover their dating experiences — so you can learn about dating Chinese men from many more voices than my own. I’ve compiled a list of all books that feature Western women and Chinese men in love — some are better than others in offering a glimpse into the dating experience, but all of them will help you realize you’re not alone.

But people do it all the time — including the author of this blog post.

To be fair, I give her credit for going on a date with a Chinese man.

Check out my 2012 blog list, and stay tuned for my 2013 list this coming March.

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For our first date he took me to a chinese restaurant and afterwards we shared our first kiss outside the restaurant.

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