Masculinity in American culture is an idea often predicated on aggressiveness and promiscuity." Replace Asian men with Black women, and exchange perceptions of masculinity with perceptions of femininity, and Blasian couples may have more in common than anyone would have ever guessed.

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We're never even given real reasons as to why some men aren't responding to Black women.

Black women are being told we need to be open to IR dating, and at the same time we're being told no matter what we do, we're not going to get noticed anyway.

In speaking of an article discussing Black women and interracial (IR) dating, Laperf offers the following analysis: [T]here have been plenty of Black women that have been open to IR dating all along.

What's really missing from these kinds articles are the voices of non-Black men...

Josie Pickens is an educator, cultural critic and soldier of love.

From the President to the UPS delivery man, Black men walk like they own the place—and they do.

While presenting authentic commentary on Black women's experiences with love, I have to make sure that my words work to uplift Black women as opposed to further "othering" them.

Shasha Laperf, who runs the My Husband Is Asian blog, is also sick of Black women being blamed for being single and called less attractive.

In her exposé, Charlton interviews casting director and star of the web series Model Files Preston Chaunsumlit (whose mother is Filipino and whose father is Chinese Thai) on the subject.